Just Ponderin

In relationships of everykind, the person with the lowest need for intimacy sets the level of intimacy and the person with the highest need for secrecy sets the level of openness. HMMMMMM!!!! Wish I had understood this sooner.

Why Can't I Get This?

That's suppose to be the title of the last post. Small typing error :) As if to illustrate my fallibility, sometimes ya just gotta laugh!

Why Can'

I KNOW THIS: When I am judging you and finding fault with you, what I am really doing is critizing you for not being me. . .not thinging like me, not acting like me, not feeling like me, not BEING me!!!!!!!! Stupid isn't it? And yet most of us do it. I know that your journey is not mine. Only I have my journey and only you have your journey. They are not suppose to be the same. How dull would the world be with everyone having the same journey, thinking and acting the same way. AND YET, I can't seem to live from this space. My mind goes to judgement so quickly and makes such stupid perceptions that I am astounded at my own stupidity. I know even being aware of my stupidity is a step in the right direction, but WHEN am I going to get it? How long is this going to take? Come on Linda, get with it!!! I am getting tired of me.